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Addressing the Barriers
The common barriers to listening listed above can be addressed to improve your skills. Here are some tips:
- Keep an open attitude so that you are free of bias, prejudice, or emotions that may complicate your experience.
- Approach speakers by giving them the same respect that you would hope someone gives you. Adhere to the old saying that we should treat others how we would want to be treated. If you would find it offensive for people to snap their gum and look at their shoes as you are explaining something, then be sure not to engage in such activity yourself. Putting yourself in the other person's shoes is a sure way to focus on the way in which you should listen.
- Eliminate environmental distractions, including background noise. If you have the ability to reduce or eliminate the distractions, you should make the effort.
- Be patient, especially if someone is having difficulty getting his or her point across or there is a language barrier. If you allow people the time to work through what they are trying to say, they will be more successful.
- Work on ways to focus your attention and improve your attention span. Being able to pay attention, even if it is a topic that does not interest you, will make your listening experience more beneficial.
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