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	<passage mp3="AUDIO_REPOS/2680.mp3" title="The Secret of Success"><![CDATA[<div id="passage"><p><strong>Jonathan:</strong> Jeff, I really don't understand how
  sometimes you have so much success with
  girls when we go out to the bar. It often
  seems like I'm the one sitting there and not
  really enjoying the conversation with the
  other girl's friend while you really hit it off
  with these women, and you're able to just
  walk up and talk to people. I don't know,
  maybe I just don't have the ability to go up
and do that. How do you do that?</p>
<p><strong>Jeff: </strong> I don't know. That's a... there's no special formula I don't
  think. I think you have to be a little bit open. You've got to be a
little bit nice.</p>
<p>.<strong>Jonathan:</strong> Do you have some lines that you use?</p>
<p><strong>Jeff: </strong>I don't think. It all depends on the situation. It depends of the
  girl and the place and how you're feeling and what the girl looks
  like, but I think it helps a lot to have a good wingman. You need a
  good wingman. If you're by yourself you look a little bit strange:
  Why is this guy here in the bar by himself, so you need a good
wingman.</p>
<p><strong>Jonathan:</strong> Well, I find when I go out to the bar with you, you've
  been able to meet and talk to some people, yeah, I guess maybe
  when I go out alone I don't have quite the same success rate, but
  then a lot of times, you go out to the bar by yourself and you meet
people and then I only hear about it afterwards.</p>
<p><strong>Jeff: </strong>Yeah, but I think it's... if you drink enough beer and you go
  out with the right mindset. Leave all or your parameter at home
  and everyone is good in their own way.... and if you're open to
  everyone, open to having a good time, I think girls can sense that
and they like that.</p>
<p><strong>Jonathan:</strong> Or perhaps you're just strange enough that it doesn't
seem all that different when you're out by yourself.</p>
<p><strong>Jeff: </strong>Well, it might be that. It might be that.</p></div>]]>
	
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