teenagers are being disrespectful when they aren't.]]> acted.]]> rude to the other.]]> listener.]]> happy that someone listened.]]> safe way to say what they feel.]]> parents are angry at them when they aren't.]]> Maybe the co-worker did not know how hurtful they were being.]]> understanding them can take a special kind of attention.]]> begin to like each other more.]]> attention.]]> chance to explain.]]> expect to hear, instead of what the person is really saying.]]> speaker and a listener sit facing each other.]]> special kind of attention.]]>